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November 20, 2007

A little blog break...

Well, long time no post. I have been having a little blog break for those of you that did not notice my absence. I am back, although I cannot promise how faithful I will be. Just to be honest. I have been trying to decide for the last week or so whether I should go into the happenings in my life. Things around here are a little "off" and strange. Details? I'm not sure you really want me to go into that. So, to make the longest story you've ever heard a rather short one...here goes. My sister, H, has been having problems in her life since she was 12. The story of her life could be seen in a book someday. Especially if she chooses to live it for the Lord after everything she has done, seen, and been through. Last week she was HORRIBLY beaten by her ex boyfriend. Ex as in 3 days broken up. She was beaten beyond recognition. And let me tell you something. No matter how angry you are, or disappointed in someone, NOTHING prepares you for the emotions you have when you walk into the hospital room of someone you love that has been so badly hurt by the hand of someone else. Especially so viciously. We don't really understand everything that went on in that house that night, but H is alive for a reason and at this point I don't care what the details are. She was saved for a reason. She is beautiful. She is smart. She is sweet. She is kind. She is a sinner. Just like me. Please join me in a prayer for H to learn something from all this. She CAN change. However, until then, her sweet, beautiful little girl Aliviah, is living with Jason and I. We now have temporary guardianship of her. She fits into out family beautifully, and we love her being here. Where she is safe from ALL harm. (She was asleep in H bed the night of the attack and witnessed MOST of it). This means we are now a family of seven. WOW! That sounds like alot. Five children. WOW! Anyhow, please keep H and Jason and I and the kids in your prayers. We are at peace with the decisions we have made in all this. Thanks for listening. I am trying very hard to stay positive. Send up a prayer for the Horton's today! Love to all!

13 comments:

Jessica said...

Oh Amy, I love you and I am praying for your family. I hate that this has happened and that the sweet girl had to witness it. Love her for all of us!

Shelley said...

WE love you all and have been praying for weeks! Had lots of fun this weekend...Keep blogging!

Betsy said...

You are a great Mom to your kids, and I know you are mothering that little girl for all you're worth! There is a reason she's with your family now... you have a lot to teach her, and I am so proud of you AND Jason.

On a lighter note, I had a ball this weekend! SO great to see you! Hope to see you again really soon!!!

Charla (SHar-la) said...

Amy, you are one of the best mothers I know. What a BLESSED niece Aliviah is! I am praying for you ceaselessly. Please keep us updated. Rich and I would love to have you and Jason over for a "five-kid break." LOL

TREY MORGAN said...

That story breaks my heart. I'll pray!!!

The Poe Family said...

What a blessing you and your family are to one another. Having someone to help pick up the pieces when you don't feel as if you are able to is what being part of a family is all about. I know how fortunate H. must feel to have you guys. Your family is definitely in our prayers.

Anonymous said...

Here I am, at work, tearing up. Funny thing is, I heard the story and all the details days ago. Can't help it. Fact is, Amy, your approach is so right--humble and right. I love you and Jason for your courage, your endurance, and your faith in Christ. WRH

Anonymous said...

You have an amazing family....You ARE an amazing person....She is so lucky to have you in her life...You're sister, your niece..you're family..
You are in my prayers
i love you

Fun Family Fitness said...

I have been thinking and praying for you and your ENTIRE family. All you can do is love your family and be there for them... You and Jason are doing a wonderful job...keep it up...let me know if you ever need anything....steph

Vanessa said...

I hope you are feeling the prayers from all of us that read your blog...please keep us all updated...It sounds like Aliviah is a lucky little girl.....

Amy S. said...

Jon and I enjoyed spending the weekend with you all last week and we loved meeting the new little addition to your family. Neely especially loved Aliviah. Yesterday I mentioned to Neely that we should give her play kitchen to a little girl who doesn't have one (she got a new one for Christmas). She said, "How about Aliviah?" She definitely had an impact on Neely. Love you guys and we are praying for your family.

Brooke said...

We don't know each other but I ran across your blog through Summer Best's blog. I went through the same situation with my sister earlier this year. It isn't something that you think will happen to your family and it is so scary to realize how common domestic violence is. Thankfully, there were no children involved in my sister's case but what you have done is amazing. Your niece is very fortunate to have a family that will love her and care for her through this time.
I am so sensative to the domestic violence topic now and when I read your post I wanted to comment and let you know that your family will continue to be in my prayers.

Nicole said...

I am so sorry about your sister. It sounds like God has a plan for her. I am glad that she has loving family like you to take care of Aliviah. She is blessed to be with family like yours.